Christian Religious Leaders have succeeded in derailing the minds of our Women and Men alike. These modern day Pastors only anchor their argument on one or two verses in the Bible and their flocks too are too docile to think logically and critically to the lies they are sold.
Firstly, while men carry millions of sperm cells in their groins, women only carry few eggs and very few of the eggs get ready for fertilization “monthly”. Men are designed to be ready at all times and this explains why men are Polygamous in nature.
Even from conception the female “dominant “X” chromosome” is stronger than the Male “Y” chromosome, infant mortality rate is higher in male children than female children because of same reason of weak male chromosomes and this explains why we have more female than male in this World apart from Wars and other societal pressures causing Women to outlive the Men. Are we now saying, the excess women don’t deserve marriage? We should stop deceiving ourselves.
In the Bible days the likes of David and the wise King Solomon were described as Men after God’s heart. God never judged them and won’t judge you on the account of polygamy because He made Man in his own image and likeness. Man has a Divine Mandate to reproduce and replenish the earth and God’s word can not return to him void.
Let our Christian Religious Leaders preach only that which is commanded of them and not to be causing confusion in homes. There are Men who are from the tribes and lineage of David and Solomon, so Women should please let the men be, the men didn’t create themselves.
It’s dangerous to sow falsehood into women because an Afrikaan adage says “when a woman decides to laugh while squatting, she laughs with her two mouths”.
Men are polygamous by nature. We can take this debate further but for time constraint, let it be known that women are designed to have more self control than men, it’s only by the grace of God that some men don’t fall into temptation. But again Nature has made it that we have more women than men in the world today. My question is what should happen to the excess women? My recommendation is that instead of Men to become heart breaks to their wives by sleeping around, they should state their stance of becoming polygamous before they even get married in the first place and legitimately bring the women home, provided they are responsible enough to cater for them and the children. Women too should understand the chemistry of the Men, it’s not easy to be a Man.
It’s not in the design of the woman to be a nymphomaniac except she chooses to be one without self control, not that nature made her so. But I am anchoring my argument on the fact that women outnumber the men and if we all agree that’s the position because of how nature has made it to be right from conception, what do we do with the excess women supposing it’s one man to one wife.
I want us to be pragmatic here, all these preaching of one man, one wife is wrong if we must have a balanced society. The One Man One wife practice has also put our women in desperate situations.
Some will make reference to God creating only Adam and Eve in the Bible, but we have not bothered to ask ourselves, what was the chemistry of Adam? and even if Adam were to have the same design and chemistry that the men of today have, which other woman or women were available in the Garden of Eden that he Adam was to chase after? Did Adam experience this swarm of women hovering around desperately wanting to at least have their own men; I mean desperate to have other women’s husbands as their own so they can have places they can call homes and have their own families too?
I think we are already at the time the Bible revealed that a time shall come when seven (7) women shall clinch to one man saying we shall eat our own food, we shall wear our own apparel, just let us bear your name. I am very sure, that time is here and we pretend not to notice it.
This is not the time for wives to lay up emotions as it will only amount to blackmail. Most times that men engage in polygamy, it’s not because they had suddenly become wealthy but they do that just to fulfill the books; the essence for men creation is for them to replenish the earth.
In conclusion, I have enumerated the causes of the disequilibrium of sex in our society which not even science and technology has been able to solve; these include the female cell being stronger that the male cell during conception, infant mortality rate of the male higher than that of the female, wars and societal pressures that exit men, leaving the world with more women. If marrying the excess women would not solve the problem, can someone proffer a solution?
To add credence to my submission above, let it be known that part of the reason you have more female than male infants even as you visit the maternity wards this morning, is the fact that in most cases, the Y chromosome responsible for the formation of a male (XY) infant survives only the 1st day out of the 3 to 4 days of woman ovulation due to the very weak nature of the chromosome. So if you don’t meet your wife on the 1st day of her ovulation, then you don’t stand a chance of having a male child.
As a matter of fact, study has shown that the Y chromosome is gradually becoming extinct suggesting that this world may end up having only female (XX) population.
Now you know where the world is heading on this Male/Female disequilibrium.
(Obinna writes from Abuja)